It’s Time To Stop Beating Yourself Up And Give Yourself A Break

Perfection is overrated - give yourself a break!

If you have been following me for the past few months, you may know that my husband and I recently moved with our three dogs.  We placed the majority of our belongings in PODS and downsized from a thirteen hundred square foot home to a six hundred square foot temporary rental while we sell our house.  Our temporary housing is a block and a half away from the beach so it was totally worth it to move into a “tiny” house.

I’m happy to say that the five of us are settling in to our new environment and I’m starting to get a routine down.

Moving is a major transition that can interrupt many areas of your life so I decided to be realistic about the expectations I was going to place on myself during this time.  All was going well on the “grace” front until the voices in my head showed up.  Maybe you are familiar with them.  The voices that whisper to you what you “should” be doing, or that you are failing, or a big slacker.  Yeah, those.

It’s always a good idea to write your goals down and to set dates when you’d like to see them accomplished so I had laid out everything the way I wanted life to look like by this time this month on paper.  It turns out I was being a bit ambitious even though I thought I was being realistic.  There were several things I hadn’t factored in to my day like multiple dog walks now that we don’t have a fence, organizing a “tiny” house, and traveling longer distances to run errands.

Give Yourself A Break

Fortunately, as a coach, I walk people through the process of “giving yourself a break” quite often so I was able to recognize those ugly voices in my head.  I took a step back and listened to the still small voice that was reminding me that we just moved, I’ve been managing the sale of our house, maintaining my business,  taking care of our animals without a secure fence, and figuring out where to buy groceries.  Considering what’s on my plate, things are actually going pretty well.  We only had one dog disappear for ten minutes (totally terrifying), we are eating home cooked meals, I’ve organized all our clothes, I’m still writing this blog, and we are getting outdoors everyday and enjoying this season in our life.  Turns out I’m not a slacker after all.

While most of us know that perfection is totally overrated and none of us can be at the top of our game all of the time, the voices in our head still like to show up and mess with us.  Comparison can kick in and we can run through the list of things we “should” be doing and the areas we think or maybe know we have failed in.  Beating yourself up is not just emotionally draining.  It can kill your joy, your creativity, and your productivity.

It’s important that we work hard and set goals.  It’s also important that we remind ourselves that we only have so many awake hours in the day and that different seasons will produce different results.

If you are in a transition right now or starting something new, I encourage you to walk toward your destiny with a flexible calendar and to be kind to yourself.

Here’s a short Facebook Live post I did last week to help encourage you!

Make it a great week!

Shared with love,
Jennifer

 

The Secret To Boosting Self-Confidence

Facebook Live Video - Jennifer Ledford - The Secret To Boosting Self-Confidence - 4th of July

Have you ever wondered how some people can seem so confident in their own skin regardless of their flaws or what others might think or say about them?

Last month, I decided to talk about this subject on Facebook Live right before the 4th of July weekend.  In this video I share what I believe to be one of the most important action steps you can take toward feeling less self-conscious about your looks and boosting your self-confidence.

The secret I share in this video is simple and it’s something you can apply right away.  It does not require dieting or adding more exercise to your daily routine.  It has to do with your mindset.

Take a moment to watch the video.  You don’t want to miss this content and I believe it will literally help set some people free.

Shared with Love,
Jennifer Ledford

P.S. If there is someone that you think could benefit from watching this video, please feel free to pass it along to them!  🙂

The Secret To Boosting Self-Confidence

Why It’s Important To Embrace Change

The Power of Embracing Change
Change is something many people will try to avoid  because it can seem overwhelming and even scary.  While it’s true that change can be difficult at times, it can also open doors to new opportunities and experiences that help you grow and get you to where you want to be.

Often times, change is brought on by a desire to want something different or better in your life.  The path isn’t always easy, but it’s usually worth it.

My husband and I are currently in the process of moving to another county.  We are moving to be closer to family and improve my husband’s commute.  Our friends and family are super supportive of our move and cheering us on.   What’s interesting is while discussing our move with friends a few have shared that  they don’t like change and one person admitted she would be too “chicken” to do what we are doing.  Her reaction is totally normal.

It’s important to note that just because I’m willing to make a major change doesn’t mean I don’t have moments of fear.  There were nights that I would freak out with worry about how we were logistically going to make things happen for us and our three dogs.  The two major things that helped me and continue to help me overcome the fear and the worry are my faith in God and my strong desire to achieve the end result.  I want the change way more than I want things to stay the way they are.

For new things to happen, change needs to occur.  Sometimes we need a little nudge to fly out of our nest so I recently did a live Facebook video to help encourage anyone that has a strong desire to make a change or may be walking through a season of change in their life right now.

No matter where you are at with change in your life I recommend that you take a moment and watch this short video.  Change helps us to walk toward our destiny and it gets a whole lot easier and more rewarding when we start to embrace it.

Here’s to positive change!

Enjoy the video and have a blessed week!
Jennifer

Why It’s Important To Embrace Change