Just Say No To The Diet Trap!

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Today’s article comes from deep within my heart.

It’s a brand new year and for many people a new year means fresh new goals and/or resolutions.  If your goal is to lose weight, it can be really tempting to try the latest fad diet that the fitness or diet industry is promoting.  It’s a normal human response to be intrigued by all the marketing that these industries roll out in January… especially if you’ve gained a few pounds over the holidays.

Before you jump on board and commit to a new diet, it’s important you know that temporary, restrictive diets have a 95% failure rate and can do more harm than good.

Have you ever suffered through the physical and emotional torment of the latest fad diet simply to find yourself unsuccessful and frustrated?

Or, maybe you lost a bunch of weight only to gain it back again. Even worse, you gained back more than you lost.

You are not alone. As a personal trainer I have seen and even personally experienced so much physical and psychological damage from dieting, it makes me want to scream!

Some of the reasons diets fail you are:

They slow down your metabolism
They cause you to store fat, not burn it
They’re unsustainable for most people’s lifestyle
When you stop starving yourself and go back to a normal calorie-consumption, you WILL gain weight
Lack of energy due to being hungry
Some diets ask you to eliminate entire food groups and key nutrients
They can cause binge eating
They can cause stress which is known to cause belly fat due to hormonal changes in the body

Look, I get it. You want to get thinner and you want it now. Most of us do not want to wait the amount of time it takes to lose weight that statistically stays off for life. The diet industry is counting on that and the marketing is very convincing!

Losing weight and keeping it off for good without dieting starts with a change in mindset.  The mindset that you are going to switch to healthy eating.  Eating for health and dieting to lose weight do not always look the same.  Things like portion control, cutting back the foods and or liquids that you know are excessive,  avoiding overly processed foods, and meal planning are all considered healthy eating, not starvation diets or skipping meals entirely.

HERE ARE SIX TIPS THAT WILL HELP YOU LOSE WEIGHT WITHOUT DIETING

1) You need to eat.  It absolutely amazes me that there are still diets out on the market today that recommend dangerously low calorie meal plans when the science says otherwise.  Your body will get really good at storing what it doesn’t get enough of.  For example, if you eliminate fat from your diet, your body will not want to burn fat. It will want to store fat.  Sound nutritional research tells us that you need to eat fat in order to burn fat.  I am a firm believer that the low fat and low carb craze has contributed heavily to the obesity crisis in the United States.

Instead of restricting what you eat, you’ll find more success when you focus on a balanced diet that is centered around whole foods.   A balanced diet includes carbohydrates, proteins, fruits & vegetables, healthy fats, and water.  Any diet that cuts one of these important nutrients out should be avoided.

2) Exercise almost every day.  Do your best to exercise six days per week. Try an interval workout 2-3 times per week and alternate with more moderate activity on the rest of the days.

Choose a fun activity on your off day like a moderate hike, cross country skiing, swimming, or taking your kids or your dog to the park.

If exercising six days per week seems overwhelming, start with 20 minutes per day 2-3 days per week . You’ll still get better results than doing nothing at all.

3) Eat in.  This is the biggest tip I can give you.  Cook at home for the next 30 days and bring your lunch. Use light recipes from sources like EatingWell, Cooking Light, and Health magazine.

4) Cut back on liquid calories. Try substituting alcohol, sodas, and other higher calorie drinks with water. Try adding lemon or cucumber for some variation.

If cutting out liquid calories sounds extreme, take a more moderate approach and cut down to half or even a quarter of what you usually drink. You can always go back to your normal consumption if you want to.  This is about figuring out what works for you personally.

5) Cut back on dessert.  Desserts are usually loaded with calories. If you have a sweet tooth, try substituting with fruit or one piece of dark chocolate.

6)  Be authentically you.  It’s really important that you pay close attention to what’s most important to you.  Not everyone wants to be or was designed to look like the models on the cover of fitness magazines.  If challenging yourself to reach an elite athlete status is fun for you and you can achieve it in a healthy way, then by all means go for it!  However, if you know in your heart of hearts you’d just like to live a long healthy life, fit in your jeans, and have the stamina to do the activities you enjoy without a whole lot of restrictions in your life, then general health and fitness is for you so please don’t beat yourself up because you’re not “doing whatever it takes” to look like a fitness model.

I recommend you try my suggestions above for the next 30 days and stay consistent.  However, If this all seems a bit overwhelming,  pick as many things from above that you can realistically implement right away and stay consistent.  Diet and exercise are very personal which is why a canned approach rarely works.  We all have different lives, different goals, and different needs. 🙂

To your long term health and fitness!
Jennifer

How To Set Weight Loss Goals That You’ll Stick To

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Millions of Americans will start off the New Year with the goal to lose weight and exercise more. It’s always great to hear those statistics! However, as a health and fitness coach for 26 plus years, I can also tell you from experience that 1/3 of the goal setters will have already broken their resolutions by January 7th. That is frustrating because I also know from experience it doesn’t have to be that way.

HOW TO SET WEIGHT LOSS GOALS YOU’LL STICK TO

Before setting any new health and fitness goals, it’s important to know what causes people to fail in the first place. One of the main reasons people have a hard time keeping their resolutions after the new year is that the goals they’ve set are usually unrealistic. Even the most disciplined person on the planet is going to have a hard time keeping a goal that is way too lofty to start with.

Permanent weight loss and maintaining a regular exercise routine is a lifestyle that is built by developing one healthy habit at a time — not created by some unsustainable fad diet or painful exercise routine!

FIVE TIPS TO SET WEIGHT LOSS GOALS THAT WORK

1) Know what you want. Take a moment to decide what you want your end-goal to be and whether or not that is aligned with your values and current priorities. While looking like the model on the cover of a magazine may seem like a motivating goal, after discovering what’s required, you may decide that’s not for you.

Keep your goals personal.  Copying someone else’s health and fitness goals can be like wearing shoes that are a bit too tight.  It never feels quite right.  It’s okay to use general guidelines, but when you finally set the goals, they need to be customized to fit your life. You are an individual which makes a cookie-cutter approach tough to stick to.

Look at your calendar and be realistic about how much time you can commit to your new weight loss goal.  This is really important!  Often times, we can get so caught up in the excitement of setting new goals that we forget to think about the time involved.  Adding a new “thing” to your life usually requires an adjustment period so allow yourself some time to figure out what works for you.

If you are struggling to find time, ask yourself if there are other commitments that you should put on hold.  If that’s not possible, consider being creative with your time like exercising when you watch TV or walking during your lunch hour.  Do what you can.  It’s better to get started with a smaller goal than to never begin at all.

2) Change one thing.  The people that see the most success do so by setting small incremental goals, knowing that they are committing to the long term and not just temporary behavior change. For example, if you eat out 4-5 times per week, set a goal to brown bag your lunch or cook at home 5 days per week for the next 30 days. Or if you want to add more exercise, tell yourself you’re going to walk 20 minutes per day for the next month.

At the end of the 30 days, commit to another 30 and then repeat. Once the first habit becomes as natural as brushing your teeth, you’re in a safe place to add more to your plate.

Or, if you’ve reached your desired goal, you are now in what we call maintenance mode. You can now continue your healthy habit for life. Mission accomplished!

3) Write it down.  People that commit their goals to paper have a higher success rate. So take a moment to write down your goals for each area of your life for the new year. If you are keeping your list realistic, it shouldn’t be too long. You can always add more later in the year once you’ve accomplished the first set.  Keep your list posted in a place you’ll see it daily to help you stay on track.

4) Do the work.  Once you’ve set your realistic weight loss goal, follow through and stick to your plan. Research shows us that once one healthy goal becomes a habit, momentum occurs leading to success in adding other healthy lifestyle habits automatically.

5) Don’t quit.  From time to time circumstances may throw you off track. This is normal and happens to everyone. All you have to do is get up, get back on track and you will succeed in the long term.

New Year’s resolutions should advance and take you forward, but not be so lofty or torturous that they are completely unobtainable. Keeping this mindset will allow you to set yourself up for total success.

Have a Happy New Year!
Jennifer

P.S.  Have a question or comment?  Please post it below in the comment section.  I love to hear from you!

My Twelve Favorite Fitness and Healthy Lifestyle Gifts

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Need clever gifts for the people on your list that are interested in health and fitness but not sure what to buy?  No worries! I’m here to help.

There are so many products available these days it can be almost overwhelming.  So to to keep things simple for you, I’ve made a list of my twelve favorite fitness and health-conscious gifts available this holiday season.

  1. Foam Roller.  It’s hard to go wrong with a tool that can be used for self-massage, strength training, and stability work all in one neat little foam cylinder.  These are available on Amazon’s website or you can find them at online fitness stores like Power Systems.  I recommend purchasing the 36″ long by 6″ round because it is the most versatile. $18-$20

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    Photo courtesy of Amazon.com

  2. The Roller8.  This massage tool was developed by athletes and can tackle those hard to reach areas of the lower body more effectively than the foam roller.  It’s like having your own in-home sports massage tool.  The cost is $119 and the company has generously offered a discount of 10% off and free shipping to any of my clients.  Use the promo code r8boulder.

    ROLL Recovery R8 Massage Roller

    Photo courtesy of rollrecovery.com

  3. TRX Suspension Training System.  This training tool has become a staple in the fitness world due to its effectiveness and the simple fact that you can use it anywhere.  You can use it to stretch, build strength, increase endurance, improve stability, and develop a great looking physique.  The TRX is suitable for beginner to advanced levels of fitness.  The list price is $199.95 but since I’m a certified TRX trainer the company allows me to share a direct link with you that offers a $45 discount.  Whoo-hoo!  Click here for the discounted link.

    TRX HOME Suspension Trainer

    Photo courtesy of trxtraining.com

  4. Gliding Discs.   The gliding discs are simple equipment that offer a powerful workout.  I use them in my private training sessions with clients and I always have a pair of gliders with me whenever I travel.   You can purchase the gliders with a workout video on Amazon for $22.95.  gliding disc
  5. Gift Cards.  Gift cards for stores that sell active wear, cooking supplies, specialty groceries, and outdoor gear are all great presents for the active and/or nutrition-conscious person on your list.
  6. Sports-related gift certificates.   A gift certificate for lessons to try a new activity or sport that someone has expressed interest in is super thoughtful and it could be the encouragement that helps them get started.  If they already have a favorite sport, a gift certificate for usage fees, passes, supplies, or gear is a big hit as well.
  7. Fitness Tracker.  For the techie people on your list  consider an activity monitor or fitness tracker.  If you’re not sure which one to purchase, a recent study published in Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise shared that the Fitbit Flex $90 and the Nike +Fuelband SE $65-$400 proved to be the most accurate.
  8. Fitness, Cooking, or Healthy Living Magazines.  A subscription to a magazine is a simple and budget-friendly gift that keeps on giving all year long.  Before giving this type of gift make sure you have confirmed that your recipient has expressed an interest in “light” cooking magazines or magazines that feature health and weight loss.  I’ve seen this well-meaning gift taken the wrong way before.  The last thing you want is to offend the person you sent a gift to.
  9. The Hydro Flask.  This is a Stainless Steel BPA-free Water Bottle and Beer Growler. Yes, you read that right. It was designed for beer and beer drinkers are serious about keeping their product cold. 🙂 Liquids stay cold for up to 24 hours and hot for up to 6 hours. Hydro Flask donates 5% back to a charity of your choice. Love it!  It’s $33.95 for a 32-oz. bottle and available on Amazon.
  10. Music.  Gift cards or memberships to music sites like iTunes or Pandora are a nice way to help the exerciser on your list stay motivated by freshening up their playlist.
  11. Ready-made meals.  Who wouldn’t want fresh meals delivered to their doorstep? It’s the next best thing to a personal chef and giving it as a gift could  shoot you up into rockstar status. Munchery gets good reviews and they offer a wide variety of well-balanced and healthy meals.  You can place your order the same day you’d like it delivered.  Bonus!

If the person on your list loves to cook but could do without the shopping, check out companies like Blue Apron and Hello Fresh.  They’ll send out pre-planned meals along with all of the ingredients and their easy-to-follow recipes.

12.  Healthy Snacks.  I remember finding nuts and fruit (along with some toys) in my stocking on Christmas morning when I was a little girl.  Personally, I still look at fruits and nuts as treats and I’m guessing many others do as well or they wouldn’t be such a huge seller during the holiday season.  I recommend sending nuts if you are not sure the fruit will be consumed right away.  If you do decide to send fruit, the Harry & David pears from Oregon are famous  and delicious.

Enjoy your shopping and holiday season!

With love,
Jennifer Ledford